Has anyone who has been a victim of a narcissist made contact with the other victims of the narcissist? Did it help to confirm what you suspected about the narcissists?
12.06.2025 03:08

I left my first known narcopath while pregnant with our second child after he found out we were inconveniently having a daughter and all satans hell fire đĽ took off fanned by his â honey monsterâ neckless huge mom ..
I have a doctorate FFS but in my defense have only had access to quora and personality âordersâ such as Sophia Bell and a couple of other guys (House and Torbay who bring a kick in guts of laughter to replace my existential pain and Morningstar to soothe the forming bruise
I am very embarrassed to admit this is my third time suffering acute detoxing from trauma bonds ⌠my evil triad !!âŚbut bearing in mind I was pregnant with a toddler which is suffocating enoughâŚ.first time round and never knew it would end !⌠but obviously never secured my battlements and to be fair the last one had a disability which somewhat mirrors NPD .. fuck the last three years I have been in a hall of mirrors !
I am sitting in that really uncomfortable place unable to breathe, sleep or eat desperate for abusive X validation especially as it is not my first rodeo and so I had that âsomewhatâuniquely reactive aggressive exit so guilt and shame is in the mix the need to apologise to my narcopath abusive bully for smacking him ( â like a spasticâ in the chops infront of all his now flying gorillas !!!đŚâŚ anyhow I digress âŚ
love â¤ď¸ to all Bee đ and especially to those who â knowâ you know xxx
Just did it over Facebook ( had to create an account) as got rid of old one . I missed her reply for almost a week. I am two weeks out only a week NC . She more than validated my experience .
this is a girl that could not complete the 1.5 M cross country course at school.. there is power in pain ⌠you donât have to wait for it to pass it can be transferred into doing energy ⌠but obviously beneath well worn muscles left my inner loving child fragmented đŁ
but on the upside my extraction to the second one and via the pain of breaking trauma bonds I became an absolute legend ( not my words) ultra runner ⌠running 100+ miles while in the throws of narcopath addiction led me to beat an entire field of men and womenâŚand set a course record for a tough 24 hr ⌠bearing in mind ..
I long to join the properly recovered as they say in AA and 12 steps generally donât think I have another recovery â¤ď¸â𩹠in me.
we already had a son and he needed two to recreate his weird sociopathic familyâŚ
I wish I had got trauma counselling while the kids were small⌠so can emphasis this to the younger x⌠as in between remaining mostly single both subsequent relationships have been with snakes in clothing ( no offence to serpents those prophets of knowledge) ..
She was with him a lot longer and a lot younger. Itâs 7 years since she left him, since then she has married I presume đ¤ a normie and had kidsâŚbut she had come to realise suppressing the trauma of that relationship ( maybe maternity leave gave her time to process?) has not been successful and she had just sought out trauma counselling re â itâ
so I think me reaching out was timely and hopefully cathartic⌠any other time it could have fallen flat cause think a lot of people suppress these narcoshiteburgers⌠luckily for both of us it was timely⌠itâs all in the timing âŚ.